Do you have a hard time getting or staying hard?
Do you have a hard time getting or staying hard?
Don’t worry you don’t have to admit it publicly if you don’t want to.
However this is more common than you may think.
If this is true for you, you can fix this without needing the little blue pill. (Outside of a legitimate medical issue).
The many men that I have spoken to that have experienced this, often admit that they have a running dialogue on their head. Fear of performance, worry about level of pleasure for the woman, stressed about another part of their lives, judgement etc etc.
This inner monologue is killing your boner.
For these same men, when I peaked into their business lives, they either were also limp in business, both in sales and in performance or they were incredibly successful. (Either carried the same self doubt with them or over compensated in the one area they found power).
For those who had lackluster performance in their businesses also, we found common core issues. All stemmed back to what they were taught about sex and money. Their self worth and the inner self sabotage they had going on.
The men who had thriving businesses, they often had a side obsession with porn, would have described themselves as failures on all other areas of their lives and carried a huge amount of resentment when they weren’t working in their businesses.
This doesn’t have to be your lives. You can have fantastic sex and get and maintain your erection as often as you like. What’s more…you can use this same energy to have a thriving business.
If you have a thriving business, we can pull from this success to help you bring that power and virility into the other parts of your lives.
How?
By changing the patterns you are stuck in.
We isolate the inner voice, eliminate the shame and guilt and build practical things into your routine that can have your bank account busting and your partner waking the neighbors.
Try this exercise.
Write down or record your answers to the following questions. Now there is no cheating here guys…and no shame. No one will ever see these unless you PM your answers or you chose to share them here. So be honest, record the first things that come to mind, uncensored and raw. Know that this is not your truth.
1) When I think about fucking my partner I think…
2) When I think about making sales in my business I think…
3) While I am inside my partner I am thinking…
4) If I am not working on my business I feel…
5) My best sexual experience was…
6) My idea of a thriving business is…
The answers to these questions will help you gain insight into the patterns, values and beliefs you have around sex and money.
They may include shame of having sex outside of marriage, guilt around past performance, being told you weren’t good enough, money is for the lucky ones, successful business people work crazy long hours and have high degrees etc etc
By becoming aware of the inner voice and self sabotage, you can begin to untangle the patterns and choose different thoughts.
This isn’t a magic pill, however it will absolutely start to put the power back in your hands so that you can have the staying power you desire…in and out of the bedroom.