Working with men
WHAT’S YOUR SOB STORY? [Excerpt from upcoming Mindsex book] How would you describe yourself? What stories do you tell at parties? What parts of your personality were dictated by someone else? What do you think when you hear the word sex? Do you like sex? Do you have the sex life you desire? Do you […]
Are you doing the work? My clients are highly motivated. They invest in themselves, show up, open up and do the work. In fact they often seek out my free content, read the books I refer to and call themselves out when I can’t see their actions. And it’s not always comfortable! But they are […]
I lived without an oven for 5 years. I baked on the bbq and used a small toaster oven. With 4 small kids. Sounds like a triumph right?! It was actually a way I stayed small. My ‘make due’ attitude meant that I lived life with less. My resourcefulness meant I figured out ways to […]
You sexy loser! If you aren’t losing, you are likely not trying anything outside of your comfort zone. Embracing the fact that you may try something and lose but gain so much more than if you hadn’t even tried is amazing. If you get out of your comfort zone and stretch, you have a chance […]
Your sexual energy is the most powerful physical energy. It is also the same energy as your creative and charismatic energy. If you aren’t tapping into and owning this energy you are missing out on so much opportunity and potential. This isn’t about how many times you get off or how often you get laid. […]
Your tolerance is what is keeping your broke! And sexually unsatisfied. If you were raised with a middle class mindset you were told to make due with what you have. That you don’t need extravagant things. That you should never ask for too much. Be realistic in what you can expect from your life. Don’t […]
Money doesn’t motivate you huh?! I work with a lot of people who say that they don’t feel motivated by money. Of course not. First of all you have probably been told the love of money is bad. That it’s greedy to make too much. That money is evil. Etc etc. It’s a brick of […]
Sex sells. Until it’s what is holding you back. If you are not doing videos because you are worried about too much cleavage. Or you aren’t doing speaking gigs because of your weight. Avoid pictures because you think you need to be perfect. You are censoring your message out of fear of what people think. […]
Were you satisfied? What do you want? Do you know what your partner likes sexually? Do you know if you have successfully gotten them off? Have you asked your clients what they want? Do you know what they need? Assumptions are made when people aren’t comfortable asking what should be basic questions. This leads to […]