Were you satisfied? What do you want?
Were you satisfied? What do you want?
Do you know what your partner likes sexually? Do you know if you have successfully gotten them off?
Have you asked your clients what they want? Do you know what they need?
Assumptions are made when people aren’t comfortable asking what should be basic questions.
This leads to bad sex and lacklustre customer support.
It is not enough to rely on a ‘sizeable’…offer or ‘big’…body of knowledge.
You have to get to know your partner and what their desires, fantasies and turn ons are if you are going to make a memorable impact.
To keep clients coming back for more, you have to fulfill their needs but also anticipate what will be next for them.
There is a lot of shame and guilt around asking a question around these two things. Thinking that if you ask the question to your lover, you are not adequate enough.
If you have to ask your clients that they need then you are not an expert and can’t truly help them.
And although they are seemingly different, they are actually much more connected than you might think.
You need to be able show enough vulnerability and interest in your partners/clients needs. Some will say they don’t know. It is your duty to get them to trust you enough to explore it. This is done with open questions, genuine interest and exploration.
So ask…get curious. Fulfill.
Come on…what are you risking? Being known as the best lover ever and the coach/marketer/PT etc that your clients rave about?